The term 'hot and bothered' is used to describe a state of being AROUSED, ABOIL, UPSET, IRATE, ired, and allupset. This phrase is often used to describe a person who is feeling overwhelmed with emotion, usually due to a stressful situation. It can also be used to describe someone who is feeling sexually AROUSED. In either case, the person is likely to be feeling a strong mix of emotions, ranging from anger and frustration to excitement and anticipation.