The term 'SAY 'there, there' to' can be expressed in three different ways using crossword solutions. The first is 'SOLACE, ' which means to provide comfort or consolation. The second is 'SOOTHE, ' which means to calm or make less painful. The third is 'CONSOLE, ' which means to give emotional support or sympathy. All three words are used to express the same sentiment of providing comfort and reassurance to someone who is feeling distressed.