Tender Ender is a term used to describe someone who is both gentle and strong. The two words that make up the term are LOIN and NESS, both of which are four letters long. LOIN is derived from the Old English word 'lān, ' which means 'SOFT' or 'TENDER.' NESS is derived from the Old English word 'NESS, ' which means 'STRENGTH' or 'POWER.' Together, these two words form the term TENDER Ender, which describes someone who is both gentle and strong.